Fear is not romance. Fear is a warning light.
If you are dating someone and your biggest daily achievement is “I didn’t upset them today” that is not love. That is survival mode.
Psychopaths don’t announce themselves. They test you slowly. Small insults. Sudden withdrawal of affection. Then back to sweetness. You start living for the sweetness and forgetting the insults ever happened.
History gave us this story already. Samson had a weakness Delilah. Every time she asked “what is the secret of your strength,” red flags went up. He lied to protect the relationship. She pushed again. He lied again. Each time, he came back. Each time, he lost a little more of himself, until the day he lost everything his strength, his eyes, his freedom.
He wasn’t stupid. He was afraid of losing her. That fear cost him his life.
If a relationship is costing you your peace, your confidence, your voice that is not something to protect. That is something to escape.
-OdogwuGNR
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